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How to attract THE ONE

Have you ever felt that you just keep waiting?

Waiting for the prince charming to show up?

Waiting for the boss to acknowledge you?

 

Waiting for the soulmate clients to slide into your DM asking for working with you?

 

Waiting for your health and energy to improve?

 

Life can seem like a waiting game …

 

OR 

 

You can recognize that to attract THE ONE (no matter if it’s a job, clients, love or a healthy body…)

 

YOU get to become the one first. 

 

Are you the reflection and embodiment of what you are calling in?

 

Because you can’t play it small, one foot in one foot out, planning for plan B to Z …

 

You get to become the energy, the essence of what you desire to attract in your life. 

 

Want a long term loving loyal relationship?

Become the best lover you ever had….

 

Want to advance in your career?

Be the one who goes the extra mile while honoring yourself and others. 

 

Want generous, devoted, loving, committed clients?

Be the one who is committed to your own growth and investing in others. 

 

BE the one to attract the one. 

 

Who are you calling IN now and who are you becoming in the process?

How to achieve your dreams by the end of 2023

Do you ever feel the pressure of setting goals?

Like the whole world chooses January 1st as some magical day to set all your goals and achieve them in a year. 

 

We set goals, plans, strategies, buy calendars, journals and then in a few months (if not weeks or days) we feel tired, burned out and very often even forget why we even set those goals in the first place. 

I invite you to do it a little bit differently. 

 

After interviewing @iamhollyhusler I was really inspired to change my perspective. 

 

Ask yourself, why are you really setting up goals? 

 

To feel a certain way right?

To attract the lover, to attract the clients, five / six figure months in your business, to travel, all these “goals” are meant to make you feel a certain way. 

 

Instead focusing “only” on your goals, ask yourself first:
How do I want to feel?

What are the three feelings I would love to experience during the year?

How will I know I have succeeded at the end of the year?

Because my love, it isn’t about setting a goal, number or finish line, and getting there. 

Often we achieve goals and then we are still not happy and fulfilled. 

 

Focus on the feeling and be intentional about creating the feeling, then you can fuel your goals and dreams. 

So, how do you want to feel in 2023?
Leave the 3 feelings in the comments and so will I :-)

How to make 2023 the most abundant year yet

Want this year to be better than the last?

You get to step into it with faith, surrender and appreciation vs running away from the “old”. 

 

Too often we set goals, make vision boards and plans thinking that when we leave all the focus on the new and put the old under the rug our life will get better. 

 

Yet, you can’t create something better from a place of scarcity, complaining and running away. (Tried that for you so you don’t have to lol, didn’t work) 

 

I invite you to instead look at 2022 from a place of celebration, reverence and trust. 

 

Imagine yourself on a big stage where you are receiving a trophy for 2022.
You have 90 seconds to share your adversities - what did you learn, how did you grow and also share your achievements. 

 

What would you share to thank 2022?

 

What would you celebrate?

 

What would you honor?

 

See, only when we can appreciate the old we can grow, expand and create new levels of abundance in our lives. 

 

So, what were some of the biggest:
Adversities 

Achievements 

 

For you in 2022?

 

I will leave mine in the comments :-) 

 

Surprising ways on how to get to next level of abundance

You might think it is the next strategy, the next program, the next move you will take in your biz that will make the difference. 

 

Yet you know the saying, all you need is within. 

 

To access new levels of abundance you really get to create a new inner environment. 

 

And I am not talking about adding more meditation or breathwork. 

 

I am talking about treating your body as the temple it is. 

 

Your body is the home for your soul and your consciousness this lifetime.

You chose it. 

 

You get to make it a pure channel so you can get to new levels you haven’t experienced before. 

 

It can be as simple as:

Starting to read your food labels and 

- eliminate canola oil, flavors (all flavors are chemicals even when it says “natural”, dairy, gluten, corn 

 

Start looking at your cosmetics and 

• use apps like @thinkdirty to help you see which products are non-harmful 
• eliminate any “fragrances” and perfumes 

 

Know how your food comes to you 

• I am choosing to be vegan because it matters to me what I put in my body and how to live beings are treated as that energy is sent into my body
  When you eat meat you are not only digesting the produce you are digesting their fears and stress (aka adrenaline, cortisol that was released before they died), also hormones and antibiotics that many of these animals were treated with

Drink lemon water in the morning to flash your liver

 

Skip any fats in the morning so your liver can be detoxing 

 

Drink celery juice by itself every morning to help deeper healing 

 

Create healthy firm boundaries in your life, biz, and work 

 

Stop using a microwave that kills all the nutrients anyways 

 

Eat more homemade meals and slow down to be present in your food

 

Swap silverware for bamboo ware as every time you put metal in your mouth it sheds heavy metals in it 

 

Minimize screen time in the morning and before bed 

 

Eliminate alcohol and coffee as those two are harming your body, adrenals and pineal gland (numbing your intuition) 

These are just simple (not saying easy) steps you can start taking to create an ELITE level of self-care and see how your life and abundance are shifting. 

 

Which one of these are you already doing?

 

Which one can you take now and incorporate into your day?

Forget the how focus on the who

Are you feeling stuck?

Like there is so much you would love to create, do or have and it feels like you don’t even know how to move in the right direction?

 

Sometimes we are such masters in creating our own obstacles as we are focusing on creating new things with old ways of thinking. 

 

We get stuck on the HOW we will do it, get there, have it and lose so much energy on looking for answers we can’t get from our current point of view. 

 

That's why I am inviting you today to shift from the HOW to WHO. 

 

Who is living the life you want to live?
Who is inspiring you these days?
Who is making you curious about new things?
Who can you hire?
Who can you collaborate with?
Who can you co-create something new with?

 

Your own current point of view can’t get you further than you already are as if you would know you would already be there. 

 

Focus on the WHO and your life path will become so much richer, freer and fun. 

 

WHO are you connecting with this week so they can support you in living your dream life?

You don’t need a pause you need to reconnect and remember your purpose

How satisfied are you really with 2022?

 

Was this year as you imagined?

Was it better or it didn’t meet your intentions?

It is so important to be intentional with how we are living our lives and to ask ourselves…

 

Did I live?
Did I love? 

Did I let others see their impact?

 

You get to own your impact. 

 

You get to own your truth. 

 

You get to own taking up the space. 

 

And you also get to create the space to GO and to FLOW. 

 

Many women who come to me feel overwhelmed, frustrated and far from joy and satisfaction. 

 

It is because they don’t remember their purpose. 

 

When you really connect to your core, to your truth, to who you truly are, your purpose will be like a beautiful North Star guiding you gently through your life. 

 

It is in the moments when you are pushing, rushing, forcing yourself and your growth that you don’t create space for you to flow. That’s when you burn out, disconnect from your purpose and stagnate. 

 

In those moments you might feel like you need a pause. 

Like you need to slow down and disconnect from the world. 

 

Yet these are the times you get to reconnect and remember your purpose. 

 

To honor sacred pauses created in each moment, day, week, month. 

 

Then you don’t need to stop doing all that is working, all that you are doing because you remember why you came here and the sacred pauses are created from a place of love not a place of fear and luck.

 

I create sacred pauses by:
Taking a bath 

Taking shower

Going for a walk

Practicing breathwork 

Practicing inner dance

Reading 

Talking to my loved ones

Receiving pleasure 

 

I create conscious sacred pauses so I don’t have to feel overwhelmed and frustrated and I come to the end of the year feeling satisfied and fulfilled. 

 

How do you reconnect to your purpose?

The real naked truth about entrepreneurship

Dreaming is beautiful, isn’t it?

Yet it can also be deceiving if we set expectations that are making us doubt ourselves. 

 

Like entrepreneurship…

 

When you start with your own biz you can get the boost of confidence, freedom and abundance that you have maybe never experienced before. 

 

And that can make you think that from this moment on it will be all smooth and easy and upward going. 

 

The reality  (and I am not here to burst your bubble my love…) is that there will be times, maybe times, when you are not upward going, days and weeks and months that sales are not going as projected, clients are not following through or you have several containers ending at the same time. 

 

These times are here to expand you, to show you that entrepreneurship is one of the biggest schools of life and that there might be some limiting beliefs you get to work through. 

 

So instead of doubting yourself and your gifts, work on working on yourself deeper. 

 

Go back to the basics and work through your limiting beliefs. 

 

Where are you not feeling safe?
What was out of the ordinary when you were succeeding?

Who did you become in the process that didn’t align with your highest truth?

What do you get to start believing in order to normalize ease, peace and success? 

What would have to happen in order for you to feel supported and well-equipped to handle even more? 

 

These are some of the questions you get to look at to go deeper my love. 

 

Entrepreneurship isn't a straight line. 

 

And yes, there can be quantum leaps, like making a few hundred dollars a month to multiple five-figure months in just a couple of months that some of my clients experienced. 

 

Yet, without bursting your bubble, if you are feeling low right now, just remember it is happening for you and it is preparing you for even bigger success than you could ever imagine. 

 

How do you feel about entrepreneurship?

What to do when you are feeling stuck in life

Are you a good planner?

Like you plan your day, your week, your month, your quarters and the year ahead?

Sticking to the plan, following the deadlines and schedules?

 

I get to admit that I have tried it. I tried hard.

Especially when in 2020 I desired to take my biz into multiple 6 figures. 

 

I hired an amazing marketing/biz coach @thesocialbungalow and Shannon helped me to plan the months, year, full of live events, workshops, retreats, etc. 

 

Then that pandemic hit and hit me that no matter how much we plan we get to allow space for divine planning. 

 

Not to say that pandemic was divine planning, far from that…

 

Yet we all needed the reset, the pause, and to re-evaluate our lives, jobs, and relationships. 

 

And for many of us, we started to feel stuck for a moment. Like what’s next when we have to throw all our ideas, plans and structure through the Windows (or Mac lol). 

 

What I learned is that when we feel stuck the Universe is arranging all the components together. 

We get to tap into trust and take that divine pause, that break that will create a breakthrough. 

 

So if you are right now finding yourself struggling because things are not going according to plan, trust that there is “THE plan”.

 

Plan that will bring you into even higher places. 

 

In the meantime when the Universe is arranging all the components together I am choosing to chill, to trust, to read more, to study more, to go for more walks, to cuddle my husband and dog more and to know that it is all part of a bigger plan preparing me…

 

What do you do when you are feeling stuck?

How to stop comparing yourself and feel worthy

Are you all wrapped up in the comparison game?

 

It is so easy to look around and see others doing better, having more, and living in more freedom, abundance, etc than we are. 

 

What we get to remember is that we get to see others as inspiration vs competition. 

 

Because no matter what level of your life or biz you are, I can guarantee you there is someone who is doing better. 

 

In the past, I was wrapped up asking myself, why her, why not me? What am I missing?

Yet I started to focus on YAY for her, as that means that there is a possibility for me too. 

 

I learned to celebrate those who I look up to and those I am coaching and mentoring. 

 

As we get to remember that our wins can look so different than we thought or planned yet it was exactly what we needed. 

 

So, I am taking a moment to celebrate my past, current and future mentors right now.

Thank you for your love, guidance, nurturing, patience, wisdom, contacts and for believing me when I didn’t. 

 

I am also taking a moment to celebrate my clients. 

 

Thank you for your commitment to growth, for trusting me when it feels like everything's falling apart while it all actually is falling together, for serving a greater vision, for allowing me to walk in my purpose, for being loving, loyal and generous. 

 

I wouldn’t be who I am without you. 

 

Who are you celebrating today?

The magic of saying YES to the right things

Have you experienced the magic of YES?

 

(Not to just anything. To the *right* things.)

 

If you're anything like me you've been a people pleaser in the past, doing everything for everyone else.

 

You say yes so you can belong and feel like you matter.

 

Sometimes we say yes to things, but end up misaligned or taking on too much and feel frustrated and burnt out.

 

It's time to realize what's a HEAVEN YES for you and what's a HECK NO!

 

When you say yes to something, you say no to something else.

 

(Don't get me started on quantum realities in this convo, let's keep it grounded in the 3D for now lol)

 

What desires, dreams and visions are you saying no to by being careless with your yes?

 

Think about the YES that's coming from the depths of your soul

 

It guides you like the breadcrumbs for your soul's highest purpose here.

 

Instead of staying yes to things that you "should"...

 

(Relationships, jobs, going out with friends, doing extra work)

 

Start to give your YES to the things that really matter

 

Work with a coach with who you align with

Buying a book

Take a break from 24/7 caretaking for your family and be alone or recharge

Get a massage

Start your podcast

Change your wardrobe

 

When you say yes, even if it's scary, it's going to lead to you feeling more alive and abundant.

 

My clients are oftentimes scared to invest in me, go to the event, start their podcast, up their podcast, etc.

 

How can you alchemize this feeling of "scared"?

 

One of my clients was really scared to work with me. After choosing herself and putting in the work, she made multiple five figures in her first launch.

 

Another client came to me saying, "I'm supposed to pay you in 5 days, and I don't have the money."

 

I said “Really? So you're closing off from any and all abundance from God/the universe for the next 5 days?”

 

She remembered her commitment to herself that coaching is a "non-negotiable" and she confronted this fear.

 

From being in the red, financially struggling, to making the investment and attracting a client and continued growing. 

 

Now? She makes multiple 5-figures each month.

 

What are you giving your YES to my love? Let me know over on IG @PetiaKolibov.