Made for Impact

How to shut up your inner critic

Do you ever feel like you are in the car riding through life and you are not sitting in the driver seat?

Many of us experienced this feeling in one way or another when we felt that others had more to say about who we are, what we should do or who we should be. 

 

And then it comes from others it’s easier to shut it off or create boundaries than it is when who is bringing you down is your own inner critic. 

 

What happens is that we are trying to ignore it and are hoping that it will disappear. 

 

Yet, like when you imagine a little kid in a grocery store, screaming loudly about what it wants when parents are not paying attention, the same way your inner critic will become louder and louder when you are trying to ignore it. 

 

The way to overcome it is to listen.

Write down all the things that your inner critic says to you. 

 

You are not good enough.

Who do you think you are?

Why would someone want to be with you?

Look at yourself and get your stuff together.

 

You are such a loser. 

 

Now…..these might not be comfortable, yet it is so freeing to write it on paper. Paper can take it all. 

 

Once you do write it all down, ask yourself.

Is this really true? 

 

Most of the time the answer will be no. 

 

THAT is your chance to choose again.

What do you know to be true about you?

 

I am loving, I am compassionate, I am resourceful, I am supportive, I am generous, I am open to accept myself….

 

Write these new truths for you and anytime your inner critic comes up say:
Thank you for letting me know and what I am choosing now is to be…….

 

Let me know what is the one thing that your inner critic says and let’s rewrite it together, shall we? 

 

Ps. I know these times might bring up uncertainty and fear, yet we can change that together when we share our light and gifts with others. 

I have created a free 3-day video series on How to attract your soul mate clients in times of uncertainty to ease that fear in your life.
Get your free gift here: bit.ly/PKsoulmate 

 

I will see you there!

How to be in your receiving feminine flow in times of crisis

Are you feeling like you are in a constant rush?

Rushing through morning, day, life?

 

Feeling that when you are not DOing something you are of no value?

Especially these days when we as a collective are facing a new crisis we get to collectively pause.

Instead of rushing even more, and feeling frustrated and frantic of now being able to do what we have planned for, how can we pause and slow down?

How can we tap into our feminine flow and ask different questions that are making us feel empowered instead of frustrated?

In order to be able to receive abundance you get to slow down my love.

You get to take a deep breath and instead of keep doing, hustling, giving, you get to open your arms to receive.

And sometimes the receiving part feels uncomfortable, and unknown as we were raised to serve, to nurture, to take care of others.

It is noble to do that, yet we get to learn to complete the circle.

There’s no giving without receiving as you are denying others to give to you. 

 

Today I invite you to write a list of things you are already receiving. 

And as you are writing it, do it in an environment that feels good to you, that feels expansive to you. 

 

When we open up and celebrate the simple ways we are receiving now, as a smile, hug, sunshine, fresh air, peace of mind, message….we open up to even more receiving as with that simple act of acknowledging the receiving we are softening into our feminine.

What’s on your list of receiving? Share with me on Instagram and tag me in your stories @petiakolibova to amplify your abundance.

Ps. I know these times might bring up uncertainty and fear, yet we can change that together when we share our light and gifts with others. 

I have created a free 3-day video series on How to attract your soul mate clients in times of uncertainty to ease that fear in your life.
Get your free gift here: bit.ly/PKsoulmate 

 

I will see you there! 

How to keep the high vibe in days of uncertainty

In these times of uncertainty and fear more than ever we are looking into different ways to stay HIGH vibe and I will be sharing with you today how to find your inner peace when outside it feels so dark and stormy. 

 

1. Let me remind you that where your focus goes your energy flows
   What people, situations and circumstances are you looking at these days?
   Check-in with yourself if you are looking at the lack or if you are looking at the things that feel good on the inside.
   The neighbors coming together to help each other, the free deliveries home, people supporting one another and also small businesses.
   What is that you notice when you look around?
   
   You can always choose your focus again.
   Ask yourself:
   What is working right now?
   What is the gift in this situation?
   What are some new opportunities these times?
   
   
2. What is that you CAN do?
   You might not be able to travel, go to work, host or attend live events but ask yourself:
   What did I wish I had time for before this?
   What do I have now more energy for?
   How can I create more space in my life? Physically and emotionally?
   Who do I want to BE when this is all over?
   
   
   
3. What if this would be your choice?
   Many people might feel powerless because they had to change, cancel their plans, or don’t have a steady income right now.
   I know my mom was one of them when she was sent home with only 60% of her monthly pay and as she lives almost from paycheck to paycheck and doesn’t have much savings she is affected by this.
   Luckily I am able to help her and send her money monthly, however, not everyone has that support.
   Even if this feels like it isn’t your choice, what if it was?
   
   What if you would say I want to stay a month or two home, what would you do?
   
   Would you finally start the podcast?
   Create a Facebook group?
   Host online webinars?
   Start a blog or write your book?

 

Now think about it like it IS your choice what is that you can do now? 

 

And remember, anything that you are experiencing and feeling in your inside world is going to show in your outside world.
What world are you choosing to create? 

This too shall pass and you ARE NOT ALONE, all of us lightworkers, healers and lovers of life are coming together to raise the vibration and keep healing.

PS: I know these times might feel overwhelming, scary and you might feel like you have no one to really talk to.
I opened more time in my schedule for those of you who want to do FREE clarity call with me to find the flow, peace and clarity in where you are now. 

Schedule your call here: https://calendly.com/bestrongminded/connect

How to stop overworking and get all your desires with more ease

How many times you have heard in your life:

If you work really hard you will make it in life?

And does hard work pay off? It absolutely does, however, in the long run it makes us burned out, resentful and doubtful. 

 

You can be checking off your achievement list and yet, no matter how much you DO it never feels enough.

It feels like no matter how many right things you do it doesn’t feel right. 

 

This model makes us question… What’s wrong with me?

And I’m here to remind you that there is nothing wrong with you!

You just did it a little bit backwards. 

 

So where we get to start is with BEing not DOing.

You get to ask yourself, what is the kind of person I want to BE?

And THEN you ask yourself, what would that person DO?

Take a piece of paper and write down all the things you want to BE.

As for example:
I want to BE an impactful leader.
I want to BE financially independent.
I want to BE a world traveler.
I want to BE a present and loving mom (wife, girlfriend, friend...etc) 

 

Then on the other side of the piece of paper ask yourself:
What would that person I want to be DO?

Often we want to create ABUNDANCE in our lives and we think that money will give it to us.
Yet, the richness of life is in the feeling of freedom, love, fulfilling relationships, peace….

When you create those feelings of abundance in the NOW then you attract the money too.

Take a screenshot of this episode and let me know who you want to BE! 

 

PS: I know these times might feel overwhelming, scary and you might feel like you have no one to really talk to.
I opened more time in my schedule for those of you who want to do FREE clarity call with me to find the flow, peace and clarity in where you are now. 

Schedule your call here: https://calendly.com/bestrongminded/connect

How to stop being the fixer

 

How to stop being the fixer

 

How many times in your life have you looked around you in awe wondering why people choose to stay stuck in their own dramas and stories?

 

I get to admit that I used to be what you would call a fixer. 

 

The one you call anytime to complain about your life, your dramas, and I would be investing my time, energy and money in trying to help you, to save you from all and every pain.

 

What I learned throughout my journey though was that when we try to save others we are disrespecting their own decisions on how to live their lives.

 

I truly believe that long before we come to this physical world we choose what experiences we want to live to expand and evolve in our own perfect timing.

 

And by us trying to speed it up and save others, not only we are hurting ourselves, we are hurting those who are not yet ready for it. Instead of pushing others to join me in my light I started to shine even brighter and those who saw it, felt it, got inspired by it joined me.

 

Where in your life you can surrender the control and stop fixing others?

 

In relationships, friends, family, work?

 

Check-in with yourself and give others the space to BE who they are ready to be instead of who you think they could be.

 

PS. If you are ready to finally dig deep and dissolve those internal battles that are keeping you in a lack-luster life... then I am here for you.

Join us for a transformational event: Meant For More in sunny Las Vegas on April 24th, 25th, and 26th 2020, and leave behind your limiting beliefs, fears, people-pleasing, and become the happy, healthy and empowered woman you are meant to be.

Head over to www.meantformore.live and get your early bird ticket now.

 

 

How to blend manifesting and marketing to attract your soul mate clients

Manifesting VS Marketing

And What if these two could go hand in hand?

What if you get to create a beautiful vision of what and who really fills your ♥️ and soul up and also get paid abundantly for being you?

What if creating marketing strategies on how to create sustainable soulful business would be fun and not punishment of one more thing to do and hustle for?

These are the manifesting and marketing steps I took to call in my soul mate clients and create 5 figure months:

1. Get super clear on who you are and your core values
2. Get super unapologetic about who do you want to serve and why
3. Create a vision board of your ideal client to call her in
4. Write her a letter of gratitude and love - how you met, where, why do you love working with her, why you’re proud of her, what results she has already created?
5. Create categories of hashtags she would be using - her interest, her places (dream places she wants to visit and places she loves - Bali, Southern California, beach, farmers market, yoga studio, working from home, etc), your expertise, online places she hangs out - podcasts she listens, events she goes to
6. Put it on your schedule when you will post, engage and give the love online that you want to attract back
7. Create a collection on IG and save there - Potential Clients and give them love and care (comments/DM/Likes/reply to stories) become the ONE you want to attract - devoted, responsive, loyal, carrying, etc...

When we start living in the world this AND that instead of this OR that true magic happens

Let me know babe, how are you feeling about marketing and manifesting!?

Why are you not attracting your soul mate clients

PS: Girl, You have always known you are meant for more.
More than just getting by.
More than just living by other people's limitations.
Now is your time to become more.
No more hiding behind your Fears or making Excuses.
No more allowing Limiting Beliefs or Labels keep you feeling small anymore.
It’s your time to take this leap… discover your true potential and gain all the confidence in the world.

That’s why I have created Meant for More Mastermind for women to have sustainable support, sisterhood, and strategies for success that is true to you.

Reserve your spot below: bit.ly/MFMMastermind

Learn how to receive abundance

How many times have you looked around and felt that no matter how much you do, others seems to have it easier?

How many times have you compared yourself to others? 

 

Thinking that by working harder, by hustling a little bit more, by taking more time away from yourself you will finally be able to create the desired abundance of your life?

And it seems like the more you work, the harder it is to feel free, have fun and attract the abundance, doesn’t it?

I was just having a conversation with one of my podcast guests and she shared with me the unshakable truth. 

 

When women are too much in their masculine energy of doing, achieving, and hustling instead of receiving, allowing and feeling they suffer. And they suffer physically. 

 

We get to learn to tap back into that infinite feminine flow my love. We get to allow ourselves to serve ourselves first and then to serve others. 

 

I invite you to ask yourself today:
How can I serve myself first?
How can I serve my mind?
How can I serve my soul?
How can I serve my body?

What worked for me are the following examples:

Mind - Reading chapter of the book in the morning. Journaling about my intentions.

Soul - Guided meditation, affirmations, stillness and silence. 

Body - Breath work - simply connecting to your breath and body, body scan, yoga, stretching. 

Now my love, how can YOU serve YOU first to open yourself UP for receiving?

 

PS: Girl, You have always known you are meant for more.
More than just getting by.
More than just living by other people's limitations.
Now is your time to become more.
No more hiding behind your Fears or making Excuses.
No more allowing Limiting Beliefs or Labels keep you feeling small anymore.
It’s your time to take this leap… discover your true potential and gain all the confidence in the world.

That’s why I have created Meant for More Mastermind for women to have sustainable support, sisterhood, and strategies for success that is true to you.

Reserve your spot below: bit.ly/MFMMastermind

 

Are you ready to die today?

When I heard this question on Instagram from one of my podcast guests it really opened my eyes wide.

If you would have asked me five, heck, even 2 years ago… I would feel so uncomfortable and heavy by thinking what is the “right” answer.

What happens is that so often we live like we will live forever.
And although I do believe that we are infinite energies, I also know, that right here, right now in this physical world we got one life to live.

One life that too often we live for others. For our family, for our partners, work…. We take care of everyone else and wait till the next time to slow down and ask ourselves:
How do I want to live?

I want you to ask yourself, today with all honesty, compassion and non-judgement….

If I die today, would I be happy, would I be fulfilled, did I matter?

I asked myself when I was in the plane flying back from Bali, and the answer brought tears in my eyes. That moment I realized that if I die at that moment I would die happy.

Happy because I loved, I lived, and I changed people’s lives for the better, I left behind movement and legacy of women who know that are meant for more and are living their truth unapologetically.

If you die today, what would you leave behind?

PS: Girl, You have always known you are meant for more.
More than just getting by.
More than just living by other people's limitations.
Now is your time to become more.
No more hiding behind your Fears or making Excuses.
No more allowing Limiting Beliefs or Labels keep you feeling small anymore.
It’s your time to take this leap… discover your true potential and gain all the confidence in the world.

That’s why I have created Meant for More Mastermind for women to have sustainable support, sisterhood, and strategies for success that is true to you.

Reserve your spot below: bit.ly/MFMMastermind

 

How to change your life by changing your environment

Do you sometimes feel like you don’t belong?

Like where you are is not where you meant to be, that there must be more to life??

What I learned along my journey is that when we change our environment we can change our lives.

Here are three different areas you can shift:
1. People 

2. Physical Environment

3. Relationships 

1. People
So often we look at people around us and we feel like they are sucking the energy out of us. We wonder why they don’t join us on this amazing journey of co creation and create a life they love instead of complaining and living in a low vibe.

What helped me on my journey to shift the energy was to:
- Change my judgement to curiosity.
When we are curious about why people are the way they are we are in energy of wonder, and wonder feels good.
Instead of being in a state of judgement that makes us feel worse.
Next time you look at someone instead of judging them, come from place of wonder:
I wonder why they rush so much driving? I wonder why they chose to wear this? I wonder why they have the need to express themselves so loudly?

- Imagine the person that doesn’t make me feel good in their presence as a little girl or boy.
What their childhood must have been like to be this way? Did they feel unsafe and unprotected?

When we can come and see others as a little child we come from place of love and compassion versus from a place of anger or expectation.

2. Physical Environment

Where we are, affects how we feel.
Create an environment that is pleasing for you, change up little details, bring in some light and life and create a space.
When we organize and create space we let energy flow and we can tap into our creative flow instead of feeling overwhelmed, stuck and unproductive.

Look around you, where can you create more space to breath, to organize, to BE?
Your bedroom, bathroom, office or your valet?

Create the space and witness how more creativity, opportunity and abundance is coming to fill that space.

3. Relationships

We are creative beings and we are meant to co-create with others over the span of a lifetime.
Not all relationships are meant to stay.
Some come for a reason, some for season, some to stay….

When we feel that a relationship (any kind of relationship - romantic, family, friends, job, clients) is not serving us we get to check IN with ourselves to see if we can:
- Let go
- Renegotiate the terms of the relationship
- Move on together but in different relationship style 

I’m excited to see what really hit home for you!
And as always, your honest reviews on Apple Podcast Reviews mean a world to me!
It makes it possible to keep creating and sharing this show.
So please take a moment to write an honest review and why this show is in your life.

I love you, I see you, I receive you!

PS: Girl, You have always known you are meant for more.
More than just getting by.
More than just living by other people's limitations.
Now is your time to become more.
No more hiding behind your Fears or making Excuses.
No more allowing Limiting Beliefs or Labels keep you feeling small anymore.
It’s your time to take this leap… discover your true potential and gain all the confidence in the world.

That’s why I have created Meant for More Mastermind for women to have sustainable support, sisterhood, and strategies for success that is true to you.

Reserve your spot below: bit.ly/MFMMastermind