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How to stop feeling guilty when you invest money in yourself

Hello my love, 
Today I want to dive in on how to stop feeling guilty when you invest money in yourself and pleasure. 

How many times have you used shopping as a therapy?

No worries, you are not raising your hand alone! Been there done that…

There are times in our lives when we use money just to use it. 

And trust me, that is not a good feeling. Who wants to be just used, right?

Yet when we pass that stage of just numbing our feelings with shopping therapy, we get into a new stage of fear and scarcity. 

Feeling guilty when we spend on things that we don’t need it's a big one in a woman's world. 

I remember when I was growing up, my mom always took care of everyone else but her. She would spend money on me, my brother, step-father, friends, fulfill their needs and then maybe with leftovers gave herself something. 

I grew up thinking that to invest in ourselves is selfish and that we have to give in order to get. 

Anyone else?

That creates scarcity and thinking that we can buy ourselves only things we need so we can save up money, and pay bills. 

What I want to invite you today isn’t to go out and spend all your money mindlessly, yet to invest money with intention in things and experiences that bring you joy. 

Invest in the things that make you feel alive and bring life into other peoples’ lives. 

Because when we support life, life supports us. 

Let go of the guilt, let go of the shame, invite in trust and knowingness that when you let your heart and not ego or fear guide you, you will decide correctly. 

What are some things that bring you joy in your life?

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How to shift your external world with nutrition

Have you ever felt obsessed with changing your external circumstances?

Like…

 

When I release some weight I will be happy. 

 

When I have an increase of money I will feel safe. 

 

If my boss wouldn’t be bothering me I would have a great day. 

 

If my kids would leave me alone for a bit I would feel peaceful. 

 

All these external circumstances are out of our control. 

 

And I used to be obsessed with things like that including my food that led to an eating disorder. 

 

I wanted to have a sense of control and peace. 

 

I wanted to BE happy and was outsourcing my happiness to external things and people. 

 

It is so important to learn that our internal world creates our external experiences. 

 

And when we do realize it we start to journal, meditate, work out, eat better… and we get those glimpses of peace, happiness, and fulfillment. 

 

Yet, it still feels like something is missing, doesn’t it?

Like you are doing all the right things but it doesn’t yet feel complete. 

 

That’s when the Universe worked its magic again and through my friend Angie Sanchez Rojo brought me another friend and mentor, Amy Zhou who introduced me to Anthony Williams, aka Medical Medium.

I went so deep on to the internal healing this time that I feel that all shifted around me. 

 

Medical Medium teaches us about our dis-eases, our aches, pains, and struggles in our bodies in a whole new perspective. 

 

Thanks to him I not only am healing my grandma, I am also bringing in more joy, love, and prosperity in my life because I am letting go of all toxicity, viruses and bacterias from my body. 

 

And it is as simple as starting my day with 32oz of lemon water, 32oz of celery juice 30 minutes after that and having for breakfast Heavy Metal Detox Smoothie.

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It is almost magical to FEEL different on the inside and having so much clarity on how what is going on inside of our bodies not only emotionally but also physically can influence our external world. 

 

It’s time to heal and elevate your life. 

 

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How to create and live your dream life

Are you living your dream life?

I still keep all of my journals that I used when I started my personal development and spiritual journey. Those journals served me as a best friend, planned, and also dream life reminder. 

When I look back I see that my life now once was just a dream on paper, it was just poured onto the paper with the hope that maybe one day….

You get to detach from what you truly desire. Detach not because you don’t care, but because you trust that when desire is born you for a reason and it’s done. 

When we trust that something is done and happening we don't’ need to keep checking on it every moment. 

It’s like when you plant new flowers in your garden and then you don’t go there the next day to see if it is sprouting or blooming, do you?

You trust that you planted your desires and now with tending to your mindset and your wellbeing you are fertilizing those desires. 

Take a journal and write about your ideal dream day. Bring it to life. 

Write about your ideal day from the waking up moment until the moment you go back to bed. 
Once you are done with journaling about it you get to take two highlighters. 

With first color, you get to color what you already have, do, and feel in your current life. 
With the second color, you highlight one thing you would like to manifest or create in your near future. 

Have this list, this writing somewhere close by where you can see it. 
Yet, once you write it, trust it’s already done and that the Universe is working on it.

I have had this list for a few years now on the door in my bedroom and it’s so much fun to see it coming to life. 

Where are you waking up in your dream day? 

 

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How I went from 30K in debt into making 30K a month

It’s finally here! 

The Money Mindset Makeover transformation that you have been asking for is OPEN! 💸

 

Imagine…

• Traveling the world, feeling free...
• Buying anything at any time for you and your loved ones...
• Money is your best friend constantly cheering you on and financially supporting you to live an extraordinary life…

All of that and more is possible, but it first has to start with changing your relationship with money.

The abundance, prosperity, freedom and richness my clients and I have experienced using the principles taught in this course is simply epic!

If you’re tired of the same-old, same-old thoughts like:

“But I don’t have enough money!”

“It feels like nothing ever changes.”

“I’m not worthy of nice things.”

“I don’t have anything special to offer to be paid the amounts I dream of.”

“Maybe others can do it, but not me.”

“If you knew how many mistakes I’ve made with money, you’d understand why it will never work.”

“Someday…” 😕

 

My Love,

I’ve got some advice for you. It’s time to tell Negative Nancy inside your head (sorry if your name is Nancy!) to SHUT IT!

Your higher self KNOWS you’re meant for all that you desire and more, that’s why you’re here seeing what’s possible with your Money Mindset Makeover. 

I share all about the course in the link.

 

This is your opportunity girl, it’s time to dive in and I’m right here holding your hand as you do it!

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How to shift your energy into a higher vibration

Have you ever wondered why your energy is louder than any words or actions? 

 

Do you ever wake up feeling crabby in the morning for no obvious reason?

 

And then the whole day unfolds matching that mood?

 

On the other hand, some days you wake up feeling amazing, happy to be alive and on those days you are in the flow.

Everything seems that it’s playing for you and you just know that everything is happening for your highest good. 

 

What if the choice is always up to you?

 

What if you might not be able to change the circumstances around you but you can always choose how you are feeling about it?

 

What if with a few simple questions you can shift how are you feeling and that feeling will lead you to better action?

 

When you want to shift your energy into flow and abundance ask yourself these reflecting questions:

 

What would soothe me right now?

 

What inspires me at this moment?

How can I feel just a little bit better?

 

How can I shift my perspective?

 

What is good in my life at this moment?

 

What is here to celebrate? 

 

The way I am feeling right now would I like to feel like this continuously?

 

What energy am I sending to the world right now? 

 

When we ask ourselves questions that can interrupt the pattern and how we are feeling we can shift our focus in a direction we truly want to go. 

 

Remember, when we feel better we are also choosing better. 

 

Choose you and your higher vibration as that is what will bring back into your life all the abundance and joy you so desire. 

 

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How to stop spending money mindlessly and start investing mindfully.

How many times you came from a shopping spree back home and felt even more empty and unhappy than when you began?

Been there, girl.

The trips to do my shopping therapy were several times a week. 

 

And the thing is that the feeling of aliveness, satisfaction, and validation I was looking for didn’t come. 

 

Along my journey, I got to learn the difference between spending my money mindlessly and investing my money mindfully. 

 

Money isn’t a thing to be spent.

Money is an energetical being that wants to be respected, appreciated, and cared for. 

 

When I started to ask myself questions that grounded me in the present moment, I was able to BE present with money vs just keep buying presents on presents. 

 

Questions I asked myself before I swiped the card or press the BUY button were:

Will this make me fulfilled long term?

Will I be excited about this purchase tomorrow or in a week?

I am just looking for a quick fix?

Is this a heck yes in my body?

 

When you check in with your intuition YOU know the answers.

I started to invest in things that are aligned with my long term vision (and yesssss it does include cute dresses and shoes lol). 

 

I invested in new 1:1 mentor, in hiring new team members who are experts in their industry, invested in new clothes that are a heck YES for me and my soul with who am I being, I invested in further education - like neurolinguistical programming and human design courses.

All these things are a heck yes in my body and some of them might be scary (mentorship and new team members I want to generously take care of) yet it feels aligned with me and my long term vision. 

So, I wonder, love, where do you normally spend your money mindlessly?
And how would it feel like to start investing and attracting even more abundance in your life to invest even more?

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How to heal your biggest abundance blocks

Do you like smooth rides??

 

Imagine a boat on a river that is bumping into an obstacle every foot.

 

How enjoyable do you think that ride would be?

 

However, when we can pause just for a moment and let go of the fear that pausing will slow us down or make us lose on something we can actually go faster. 

 

To really heal our blocks we get to look back and change the meaning of the old stories that are like the rocks in the river stopping our flow. 

 

When I looked back on my old stories that might seem insignificant now, yet back then they really hurt I was able to see it in a different light. I was able to see how those old stories were still affecting my present and blocking me from the flow. 

 

To get back to your abundance flow we get to pause and visit the past. 

 

Get your journal out and write down all the old stories that hurt you in the past and that are still coming up in one way or other in your present moment. 

 

See the meaning that you gave to that event, to that story.

Ask yourself if that is still really true….

 

And then, choose again my love.

Choose again a new story, a new meaning. 

 

For example, when I was around 8 years old my parents cleaned the house on Saturday morning while they were watching cartoons with my little brother.

The meaning I gave to this event was that I am unlovable, unworthy, and I will always have to do things so I deserve to be accepted. 

 

This lead me on a journey of eating disorder of 18 years, toxic relationships, depression, attempt of suicide, anxiety, and complete sense of unworthiness. 

 

Now that I looked back at that story I can change the meaning that I gave it back then as a little girl.

I choose to see my parents as a loving force. You want me to be independent and who wants me to live in an environment that feels good. 

 

When I look at this story this way, I feel empowered, I feel loved, I feel in the flow.

It truly isn’t about what happens in our lives but the meaning we give it.

When you change the meaning you change your life.

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The one journaling exercise that will change your life

Do you ever feel like you blank out when you write about the journal?

I know I have.

Like, I heard journaling is good for me, that I should do it..yet..what do I write about?

The kind of journaling I grew up with was kind of a complaining one. Like what went wrong in the day and what would I like to change. 

 

And as you can imagine, this kind of journaling brought me more of the things to complain about lol 

 

Now I want to share with you the one exercise that shifted it all for me, especially my mindset. 

 

Instead of writing about what’s wrong and what’s not working I started to journal about the positive aspects.

Yes, looking on the brighter side really does have an effect on us and our  mind. 

 

For any area you would love to improve, finances, relationships, love, work, health, peace, write the topic on the top of the page and then write down the positive aspect about that topic.

You might not have yet hundreds and thousands of dollars to celebrate, yet, I can guarantee you there are good things about what is NOW in your life. 

 

When we can focus on what is working, what can we celebrate, more to celebrate comes.

This is a consistent practice.

You can do it before you go to bed or have a separate small journal you can have around you throughout the day and write in the things that are good about the topic of your focus. 

 

Don’t disregard this as “too simple”. The simpler it is the easier it is to follow through and the less resistance the mind will give you. 

 

Make it easy for yourself and take the path of least resistance. 

 

You deserve it!

 

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3 easy steps on how to become a manifesting magnet

Not like you need saving girl, YET today I want to share with you three easy steps on how to become a manifesting magnet! 

 

Sometimes we all deep inside of us are screaming for help, guidance and advice and might feel afraid to let it out and ask for the S.O.S.

Today I am bringing it to you :-)

S. 

Specific Goals

You get to be specific about your desires. You can’t just say, I want to be financially free.

Ask yourself:
You get to know what that would look like for you?
How much money you want to make a week, a month, how much money you see on your account when you log in online, how much you have saved, invested etc.

Be specific in your wishes YET when journaling about them or thinking about them you get to say:

This or something better. 

 

Open yourself 

You get to open yourself to wilder possibilities.
When we desire something we look right, left, we look at our past and base our desires on being “realistic”.
What we have seen was possible in our parents, friends, and our environment. 

Once we can open ourselves to something bigger, better, we are allowing things that were up until now out of our radar to come. 

 

Ask yourself:

What would it feel like….

What would it be like…

What would it look like….

What would it smell like…

 

When you receive your desires?

 

When you ask yourself these questions your subconscious mind isn’t fighting it with reality check, it is open for the possibilities. 

And it is the new possibilities that can bring it in. 

 

Surrender

I am raising my hand here as the one who tried to control it all. For the sense of control and stability I have created eating disorder for over 18 years, I invested money and time in toxic relationships to feel loved and validated and I truly wish something better for you love.
What I desire for you is abundance, flow, ease, effortlessness. 

When we surrender we relax, when we relax, we open, when we open we can receive. 

 

Ask yourself:
Where in my life I can let go of control?
Where in my life I can give myself permission to relax?
How can I surrender even more in my life?
What would it feel like in my body to fully let go of uneasiness?

 

These S.O.S steps are so easy to take.
Also they are easy not to take. 

It is truly in your hands to become the manifesting magnet to all of your desires.

And if you need extra support with that remember to download my freebie I have created for you. 

 

If you've been trying to shift your money mindset towards abundance and prosperity, you need this money mindset matters freebie. It will help you re-write any outdated beliefs about money to supercharge your attraction and magnetism for all the good that is coming to you, NOW.

 

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How to attract more money in your life the way your parents never told you about

Everything in our lives is about relationships.
Relationship with selves, with our friends, family, team, boss, clients, food, money…

We get to ask ourselves if how we are treating money we would like to be treated?
Most of the time the answer is no, yet, there’s nothing to be ashamed of.

As Maya Angelou wisely said:
“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”

 

Now that you know better you can choose again and create a relationship that is fulfilling.

Write down how YOU would like to feel in a relationship, how would you like to be treated?
For example:
With love, care, respect, having fun, feeling free to be me, nurtured, heard, etc.

Now that you know how YOU want to feel, ask yourself how can you make money feel that way?

You can start by writing it a letter on your weekly dates, having your weekly dates that feel fun and are connecting you with money.

Imagine money as your lover, friend or a family member. 

 

When we treat money as just a thing that’s what it becomes. Thing that is lifeless and we can’t predict.

Yet, when we treat money with energy of love, respect, and as a close person we love, that is what it becomes. Always available, supportive and loving. 

 

Remember, the difference between source and channels.
Your clients, job, parents, family, friends, that’s not your source of money or abundance. Those are just channels and channels can always be created and changed.

Your source of money is the universe, source, God, whatever you believe is the higher power that is keeping us and all alive and working :-)

When you are thirsty you can go drink water from a tap at home, yet when it’s broken you won’t freak out that you will die of thirst, because you know there are different channels where to get water.
Same goes with money. There are always more channels and when you can relax and surrender to that infinite power that’s when you tap into the continuous abundance (and inner peace, knowingness, bliss, happiness) …

For your weekly money date:

• Create a fun and feel good environment - ask yourself what would be fun on a date?
  Candles, crystals, essential oils, music, food, drinks??
  Do just that and each week play with something new or celebrate what feels the best for you.
  
  
• Get a wall calendar and write on it each and every income of money from any sources - then do weekly sum of it (and also at the end of the month sum of the month) I love using highlighter to make the individual sums stand out
  
  
• Get nice journal for your journaling and letters with money
  I love starting with hot cacao, essential oils and setting intentions for the date and then I write an appreciation letter to money. Sometimes it's a forgiveness letter if I abandoned it or didn’t check on it or didn’t trust it will come.
  Under that I write the Weekly Abundance - that I get from my calendar - Individual income and then highlight the sum for the week.
  Then I move into How am I circulating money (it’s like a dream list how am I using money when I have more than enough of it)
  Then I am done or if I want more I write about - Short term financial goals and next Long term financial goals
  
  

Get a bigger journal where you can write a different investments each week you write what you have invested in -
Business, Personal, Groceries, Eating out, Bills - are examples of my monthly investments.

 

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