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How to stop comparing yourself

How many times have you scrolled online or looked around you and compared yourself with others?

Wishing you would have something they do or be where they are?

It is so easy to look around and see only the highlights of other people's lives. 

 

It is so easy to think you are not enough and not doing enough. 

 

Babe, do you really need this extra pressure?

 

Today I am here to remind you of your brilliance, your unique journey and also three steps how to release that habit of comparing yourself  with others. 

 

1. Remember:
   If others can have it, so can you.
   Instead of feeling jealous or comparing yourself, simply thank that person (in your mind) to show you what’s possible. 
2. Remove:
   The triggers in your life and online.
   If there is something that deeply triggers you and you are not able to remove it and feel inspired by it, simply remove them.
   Mute them online, unfollow, and it isn’t because you don’t like them, but because you like yourself and your peace even more. 
3. Restore:
   Restore the trust in yourself and your capabilities.
   Create a list of 50 achievements you have done in your life. No matter how big or small write it all down and see how your perspective about yourself, your capabilities will start shifting.
   Have this as an ongoing list. 

 

You are not alone, my love, ever. 

Remember this and how loved and supported you are. 

 

And if you are feeling alone and want support, remember my free mastermind Meeting you Higher on August 25th (and if you listen to this after the date just email my team to hello@petiakolibova.com for replay).
On this mastermind we will create a safe space to express how we are feeling with all that is happening in the world, share ways that we can hold a space and be compassionate with others even when they choose to go with the fear and pressure vs sovereignty of their body. 

 

You can RSVP for this free even below:
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How to stay sane during these extraordinary times

Can we agree that the times we are living in are extraordinary?

That what is happening in the world is so unbelievable for so many of us?

I see daily fears and doubts on people’s faces, I see family and friends being divided physically and in opinions. 

 

I feel the pain of not knowing and saying yes to do things that don’t feel right to our bodies from a place of fear and pressure. 

 

Many women are now messaging me on my Instagram (* www.instagram.com/petiakolibova if you want to connect deeper too) sharing with me that they have no one to talk to, to share how they are feeling and that they are feeling alone. 

 

This is the time we get to come together my love. Times that instead of blame and fear we hear each other and slow down to understand. 

 

The things I have been sharing with my clients to stay sane and to protect their energy are the following ones:

1. Go back to nature:
Grounding, Earthing, slowing down and being fully present in nature is so healing.
Also using natural crystals - like selenite to cleanse your own aura and energy is helpful. 

 

2. Meditation shower:
Visualize and imagine you are washing off the heaviness and negative energy 

White light washing over you.

 

3. Spiritual Bath:
Black tourmaline

Honey (fresh and local is best) 

Pink Salt 

Rosewater or petals 

Black tourmaline 

Whole basil leaves (easier to remove from the tub)

 

I know you might feel confused and wondering what will happen. And trust me, you are not alone. 

 

Listening to my gut and intuition I knew I had to create a safe space for women to speak up and to raise our vibration as a collective. 

 

I am holding a free mastermind online on Zoom on Wednesday, August 25th at 5 pm PST.
It will be recorded so you will have access to it even if you can come live, just make sure to register below:

https://bit.ly/MeetingYouHigherMasterclass

 

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Three ways on how to get out of your head and back into alignment

We all have those days when we are feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and overthinking. 

 

For those days I want you to save these three E's in your back pocket. 

 

To shift back into alignment check these three elements in your life:

 

1. Environment - Assess your external environment. What is feeling off? What can be moved around?
   What can I shift so I am feeling better?
   What externally doesn’t feel right?
   
   
2. Emotions - Going from outside IN. What inside am I feeling? How can I disassociate by not declaring I AM my emotions but I am feeling my emotions?
   How are you feeling?
   What caused those feelings?
   How can you honor how you are feeling without judging it?
   
   

1. Eagerness - Marrying the external with the internal.
   What can you do to feel alive again?
   What can you do to create flow and ease?
   Going for a walk?
   Dance?
   Take shower? Take a nap?
   Disconnecting from technology?

Give yourself permission to be the observer in your life vs being the absorber who is in the head and not trusting her body and intuition. 

 

Drop IN and start shifting. 

 

Which one will you work on first? Environment, Emotions, Eagerness?

 

Let me know and tag me  on Instagram at @petiakolibova 

 

And remember, I love you, I see you, I receive you.

 

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Thank you so much for your love and support!!

 

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How to create success as a multipassionate person

Have you ever thought that something must be wrong with you because you just don’t “fit”? 

 

Because there is so much of you that you don’t even know how to explain yourself to others?

 

This is your permission slip to BE you and to relax into all of your passions. 

 

There is no need for you to fit into any boxes. 

 

To explain yourself to others and to put labels on who you are and what you do. 

 

Being a multi-passionate person is a privilege, and honor, that you get to were proudly on your sleeve. 

 

I invite you to write down the things you are curious about, things that really light you up, and see how your energy will shift. 

 

Just by acknowledging what lights you up and that you can be abundant, successful and fulfilled by liking and being passionate about many things is going to set you free. 

 

What are your passions, my love??

 

PS. For all my California ladies we are hosting an amazing FREE EVENT in Huntington Beach, California with my amazing client @damarigold where we will network, connect and share with you how we have created our abundance so you too can take the Path to Prosperity. 

 

RSVP below for this event as the spaces are limited to only 30 women:

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How I manifested living in a tropical location

I didn’t plan for this 😳

 

Yet it’s happening at such a rapid speed!

 

My dear client, friend, and the best photographer @maddienicholephoto told me once that some of the best things happen without us planning them.

 

When I was resting and healing my body this past week I got an unexpected text from our landlord that we get to move out of our home because her brother got a green card and will move in.

 

Mind you, I’m in the middle of feeling unwell, planning a trip to Europe to help my mom after my grandma AND grandpa transitioned, and preparing two events back to back in California about abundance and money with @damarigold

 

Talk about unplanned 😳🙄

 

My first reaction was to overwhelm and freak out.

 

The second was - Universe showed me the way and how this will work out.

 

I surrendered.

 

And with that surrender within two days, I have manifested a new amazing home in Tulum, MX, 5 figure revenue, and home for our 31 baby plants while we make Mexico our home for the next 6 months.

 

There is time to plan and time to trust that you’re always guided.

 

Plus, I’m taking radical responsibility!

For months now I have been saying I need to live somewhere tropical, with a pool and green garden.

 

And the Universe answered!

 

If you knew that the universe would answer right away, what would you ask for?

 

PS. For all my California ladies we are hosting an amazing FREE EVENT in Huntington Beach, California with my amazing client @damarigold where we will network, connect and share with you how we have created our abundance so you too can take the Path to Prosperity. 

 

RSVP below for this event as the spaces are limited to only 30 women:

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How to use meditation to create inner peace from the sacred masculine perspective with Christopher Burns

On this episode, we discuss...

Becoming the best version of yourself
Creating the life that I desire
Re-connecting with my soul
Being aware of your respiration
Getting experience to know yourself
There's a gift in pain
Having a mind of glass
Being fulfilled and free
Practicing not being attached
Being committed to my soul
The clarity to be my best self

 

"What we require more than ever as human beings is implementation, integration and execution on the things that we already learn"

"We get to retrain our brain in things that are really important for ourselves and our family"

"Men need to do good to feel good, women need to feel good to do good and live a happy life"

 

PS. For all my California ladies we are hosting an amazing FREE EVENT in Huntington Beach, California with my amazing client @damarigold where we will network, connect and share with you how we have created our abundance so you too can take the Path to Prosperity. 

 

RSVP below for this event as the spaces are limited to only 30 women:

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My first 10 days vipassana silent meditation retreat experience or how 100 hours of meditation turned into 100 shades of grey

Meditation has been a big part of my life and teachings for the past half-decade. 

I turned into guided or visual meditations for peace and insights. 

 

YET what I have felt and experienced on the 10 days silent meditation vipassana course in Joshua Tree was nothing like I have ever imagined or expected. 

 

Vipassana, which means to see things as they really are, is one of India's most ancient techniques of meditation. It was rediscovered by Gotama Buddha more than 2500 years ago and was taught by him as a universal remedy for universal ills, i.e., an Art Of Living. This non-sectarian technique aims for the total eradication of mental impurities and the resultant highest happiness of full liberation.

 

Vipassana is a way of self-transformation through self-observation. It focuses on the deep interconnection between mind and body, which can be experienced directly by disciplined attention to the physical sensations that form the life of the body, and that continuously interconnect and condition the life of the mind. It is this observation-based, self-exploratory journey to the common root of mind and body that dissolves mental impurity, resulting in a balanced mind full of love and compassion.

 

The scientific laws that operate one's thoughts, feelings, judgments and sensations become clear. Through direct experience, the nature of how one grows or regresses, how one produces suffering or frees oneself from suffering is understood. Life becomes characterized by increased awareness, non-delusion, self-control and peace.

 

And even though my mind could appreciate and grasp all of this as making sense I also found myself in moments of expectations, doubts, comparing with other methods I teach and practice (like breathwork detox). 

 

The first three days were challenging because I felt like I couldn’t understand why it is supposed to be hard work, why we get to sit in silence and meditate for 10 hours a day when with breathwork I see instant results in me and clients after just one session. 

 

That is why I feel it is important to come with intention yet no expectation and leave all that you have been and did up until then behind the door vs bringing it in with you. 

 

I am so thankful for this course because it helped me observe my habits, my thoughts and also my desires and things I would rather abort. 

 

Day 5 and 6 were challenging in such a surprising way as I experienced lots of desires, sensuality and planning all the possible and impossible details on how to spice up our intimate life at home. The things you come up with when you are sitting with your thoughts in 10 hours is astonishing lol 

 

And the last few days I was going in and out of my concentration. I found myself connecting to my body and sensations, and moments where I was wondering when this meditation hour is going to end and if the teacher forgot to look at the time. 

 

As with anything with life you get to listen to your intuition, trust what is calling you and to what is your next step.

 

When I was asked if I would do this again, my first reaction was NO! AND when I step back now knowing what is and will be happening there I know I would be more prepared and surrendered even deeper. 

 

Do you have a meditation practice? Share with me on IG @petiakolibova or email me on hello@petiakolibova.com would love to hear what is helping you to create peace in your life. 

 

PS. For all my California ladies we are hosting an amazing FREE EVENT in Huntington Beach, California with my amazing client @damarigold where we will network, connect and share with you how we have created our abundance so you too can take the Path to Prosperity. 

 

RSVP below for this event as the spaces are limited to only 30 women:

https://bit.ly/PathToProsperityNetworking

Why you get to listen to your intuition

Those nudges inside of you that are telling you to go somewhere, say something or meet someone aren’t random. 

 

I remember reading the book Big Magic where the author explains about the inspired ideas that come to us to be born through us. 

 

If you don’t follow those intuitive nudges someone else will and you might be missing out on the sense of fulfillment. 

 

It really isn’t about advocating Nike's slogan: Just Do it!
That isn’t a life strategy for everyone, actually, it is a life strategy for the very small percentage of our population who are human design manifestors. 

 

The rest of us are meant to wait to respond or to be invited. 

 

Yet, when your intuition keeps nudging you and you keep shutting it off you are not only not allowing yourself to live your life to its fullest and richest, you are also not supporting those who align with you. 

See, what I have learned along my journey is that you never know who is listening to you, who is inspired by your way of BEing. 

 

Allow yourself to BE guided by your intuition and let it help you to grow, expand and experience this world. 

 

That’s why we came in here my love anyways. 

 

My Ayuhuasca experience and how it changed my life

Learning to trust my intuition even when it didn’t make sense really served me. 

 

I truly believe that when we let ourselves inspire us with what lights us up it is the Universe's way to guide us to show us the next steps. 

 

For me, that was a plant medicine experience. 

 

Ayahuasca is a tool for psychological healing, personal growth, or expanding consciousness.

 

I was really happy that the experience we have created and manifested was one on one with our dear guide and shaman. So only 4 people in the room where we felt held, nurtured and supported. 

 

My main intention really was to clear ancestral pain, trauma and beliefs for the baby we are intending to call in with my husband, but also see a way how I can serve this world on a higher level. 

 

And let me tell you, grandma Aya really knows how to take you exactly where you need to go to heal. 

 

I didn’t experience purging as many people report to do and as a couple of people in our room did (I thanked them for purging for me as I felt that’s what happened), yet I felt the strong emotional release of pain from my grandma's transition and also release of expectations for myself. 

 

The one thing that kept coming up for me was - It’s safe to be me. 

 

For decades I thought I am not enough, I am not special, and compared myself with others. Aya showed me that my uniqueness is needed, that it is safe to be me and to share it with the world. 

 

I also experienced sensations and trembles like I was re-birthing myself. 

 

Ayahuasca might not be for everyone yet I believe that I was guided to her for a reason and she helped me to clear my body, mind and align my spirit with the next steps, our future babies and abundance. 

 

Curiously, have you tried any plant medicine?

Why are you feeling so exhausted

Do you believe we are light beings and can create infinite energy?

I do AND….

 

I also believe we came here this lifetime to embrace this physical form to play with the energy we have, the experiences and things in a physical form and that also means that our energy is really aligning with what we allow ourselves to receive. 

 

When I say receive I mean what we will allow ourselves to say yes to that is a heck yes. 

 

Anytime you are going to say yes to something you are also saying no to something else. 

 

Are you ok with that? 

 

Are you ok with saying a mediocre yes because you don’t want to be judged, you don’t want to be hurting others?

The moment you embrace what is a heck yes for you my love all your desires will start flowing to you because you become an energetical match. 

 

So check in with yourself, what are you saying YES to that isn’t wholehearted heck yes?

 

And why?